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Dedication and Epigraph

For those familiar with E.O. Wilson and the evolution of the science of Sociobiology, Phillip Ball and his book Critical Mass, Paul R. Lawrence and Nitin Nohria’s work and their book Driven, Lt. Col. Dave Grossman and his book On Killing, Robert Wright who wrote The Moral Animal, or Denise “D.D.” Cummins and her work on Dominance, status, and social hierarchies - it is they who deserve the credit.

If I have seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.

– Isaac Newton

“If the genius of invention were to reveal tomorrow the secret of immortality, of eternal beauty and youth, for which all humanity is aching, the same inexorable agents which prevent a mass from changing suddenly its velocity would likewise resist the force of the new knowledge until time gradually modifies human thought.”

– Nikola Tesla

Illustrations by Marley Stroh

Acknowledgements

It is essential that I thank a host of people without whose support, love, help, feedback, stories, and in some cases tolerance, this book simply could not have been written:

Contents

Introduction - A compulsion to ask and answer “Why?”

  1. A Host of Puzzling Questions and What We Think We Know
  2. How we think we think - Existing theories and more problems
  3. A New Description of Human Decision Making, Choice and Behavior
  4. Free Will or Genetically Dictated Behavior
  5. Our perception of purpose, The need for objectivity, and The laws of genetics
  6. Of Patterns, Paradigms and Perception – How Form Dictates Function
  7. The Dynamic but Universal Nature of Status, Mastery and Novelty
  8. Human behavior is predictable just like a flock of birds

Conclusion

Introduction - A compulsion to ask
and answer “Why?”

When I was 13, my advanced math teacher gave the class a formula saying “use this to get the right answer.” I asked why the formula worked. “That math is way beyond this class, just use the formula,” he replied.

As crazy as it may sound I couldn’t make myself do it. I had to understand why the formula worked before I would use it. I continued trying to solve the problems, but failed the test. Prior to this I had never received a grade on a math test lower than B.

My teacher asked me why I had done so poorly, and became very annoyed when I explained that I just wasn’t comfortable using the formula unless I understood why it worked. In hindsight he probably thought I was challenging him, but I just needed to know. After two more failed exams, parental involvement, a transfer to the same class taught by another teacher, and that teacher actually taking the time to explain the proof, I went back to getting good grades.

I’m sharing this story to demonstrate an aspect of my nature; I have a compulsion to ask, and understand, “Why?” I am also someone who has repeatedly worked to develop new and innovative products (some successfully, some not), it bothered me immensely that there was no solid answer to the age-old question of why some products succeed, and yet so many others fail. None of the explanations available stood to scrutiny. To make matters worse, new explanations seemed to rise and fall faster than fashion trends and every new product I worked on – success or failure - magnified my need for an answer.

In the same year as my math struggles, either looking for something to impress a girl or compelled by an English assignment, I was flicking through a copy of my mother’s Norton Anthology of English Literature1 and stumbled upon Percy Shelley’s “Ozymandias”:

I met a traveller from an antique land

Who said: Two vast and trunkless legs of stone

Stand in the desert. Near them, on the sand,

Half sunk, a shattered visage lies, whose frown,

And wrinkled lip, and sneer of cold command,

Tell that its sculptor well those passions read

Which yet survive, stamped on these lifeless things,

The hand that mocked them and the heart that fed:

And on the pedestal these words appear:

‘My name is Ozymandias, king of kings:

Look on my works, ye Mighty, and despair!’

Nothing beside remains. Round the decay

Of that colossal wreck, boundless and bare

The lone and level sands stretch far away.

A few years later in my first “real job” my boss asked me, “why has every great and powerful civilization – every single one – despite every advantage, eventually collapsed?” Ozymandias immediately came to mind and my compulsion to understand why kicked in. Once again, no available answer could stand to scrutiny. Throughout the decades that followed, I continued to seek one out.

Quite unexpectedly my quest for answers to these seemingly unrelated questions came together. I read Driven by Paul Lawrence and Nitin Nohria from Harvard and The Moral Animal by Robert Wright, just after re-reading The Rise and Fall of Great Powers by Paul Kennedy. All had great value to offer, but both Driven and The Rise and Fall had internal inconsistencies or contradictions, were not consistent with my experiences, and had too many elements that were seemingly refuted by other robust research.

The three together, however, provided a whole new direction to explore. Rather than looking for answers in the particulars of specific civilizations, events, or new products, I would look for answers in the one thing they all shared; the medium of human beings.

Rather than two discrete questions, I would ask just one. I would ask a question that would be in some ways simpler and in some more complex. “Why?” Or more specifically, “Why do sane people do the things they do and make the choices they do - including the crazy, irrational, and seemingly inexplicable ones?”

Even if you don’t have my compulsion, most of you will share my need for an answer. As a business leader you need to know in order to motivate and direct your staff. As an entrepreneur or product manager you need to know in order to predict the success of your product. As a teacher you need to be able to influence your students. In any role, with any project, you need to know in order to improve your chances of success. As any normal citizen, you need to know simply so you can make better decisions and plan your future? Why Trump? Why terrorism? Why are some things so widely adopted they become disruptive and yet others are rejected seemingly without reason? Why do people do the things they do and make the choices they make?

Science can finally provide an answer, thanks to inputs from dozens of disciplines ranging from economics and neurology to behavioral developmental psychology.2 While no single discipline of study provides the logical proof or complete chain of evidence, each contributes a piece of the puzzle. Collectively, they make clear an answer and prove the explanation rests in the universal aspects of human nature.

In short, our brains are comprised of a collection of evolved, purpose specific modules. Amongst other purposes, these modules motivate us to pursue and resist the loss of seemingly abstract outcomes such as relative status, belonging, mastery, and novelty. It is common for these outcomes to be pursued at the expense of rational self-interest or preservation. In addition, these modules, as well as the rest of our brain, are built almost entirely from a single standard neural building block. This universal building block requires nearly all information to be stored in the form of patterns of stimuli and for these patterns to be created by the association of new patterns with ones that already exist. These two realities, the non-monetary forms of value defined by our drive traits combined with the pattern and association bounded nature of all stored information, fundamentally influence our perception and our choices. This is Motivational Drive Trait Theory.

These genetically dictated traits, rather than overriding free will, in many cases prompt it. Despite this, they so strongly influence our perception, choices, and behaviors in context of other people that they dictate readily applicable and formulaic rules for behavior in groups and between groups. These rules in turn enable an explanation and prediction of our choices to adopt new things, a variety of societal scale phenomena, and the interaction of groups with each other. They also offer a pragmatic new approach to leading positive and successful change.

What I propose in this work has what is most lacking in all other explanations: consilience. Meaning it provides a single, consistent explanation across all arenas of human activity and their associated disciplines of study: from economics and the diffusion of technology to neuroscience and from political science to evolutionary developmental psychology.

Despite the strong support consilience represents, and its satisfying nature, I am aware that despite everything I have read and studied, I may have missed something. I have hunted to find every piece of the puzzle and have put those pieces together for you here. I hope this picture is complete, and uplifts your understanding of why we are the way we are, make the decisions we make, and do the things we do. I earnestly hope you find this book worthwhile and thank you in advance for reading onwards.


1 Totally unrelated, another absolutely magnificent poem I stumbled across at the time and remember to this day is Richard Lovelace’s “To Althea from Prison.”

2 I group books together on my bookshelf that I’ve read in support of this project. I’ve counted these along with the relevant eBooks on my iPad. Together they total 210, but that count only includes the books I own. I’ve also pulled a file count on the research papers I have on my computer associated with the project (1,272). I’m not going to count all of those I have in print. Though I will say my wife would be thrilled if I’d put them all in the recycle bin and free up the entire lower shelf that runs along the length of our front room.